Confused about the forgiving exercise

GA

I’m a bit confused about the concept of forgiving exercise. Does it decrease the intensity of pain or what its real purpose is?

Suppose, I do forgiving somebody who is torturing me, and there is possibility that he will change his ways. But I think, if he stops, somebody other will appear.

Because real cause of my sufferings is my own misdeeds and the person is just a medium!! Until I remove the ’cause’ of my suffering, I will have to suffer through different ‘mediums’.

With forgiving ex, I can (at subconscious level) request to someone for releasing me, but will my bad karmas, and their results will release me?

I think if I apologize before lord, only then, I can get some actual relief because he gave me this human form and I misused it by doing wrong deeds and I’m guilty of misusing the precious gift of lord.

And how can I release a past life connection, without settling karmic accounts, just by doing forgiving exercise?

I'm a firm believer of theory of karma so I’m asking this question. Pls clear my confusion.

Naran

Forgiving the one who is troubling us is a state of the soul. It is divine.

The real meaning of forgiving is “I stop my anger. You also stop your anger.”

When you think of stopping your anger first, it justifies the quantum theory that effect precedes the cause.

Total forgiving attitude cleanses off everything. If someone appears and troubles you, do it again. That is all.

Instead of thinking it is my karma, be above it.